A 12-Week Online Program &
Communal Alchemy Container

For Men & Women Healing the Wounds of Disconnection
with Self, Other, & Community So You Can Lead & Love
with an Open, Connected, Empowered Heart.

🌀 FEBRUARY 15TH - MAY 2ND, 2024 🌀

12-Week Interactive Group Program • Weekly Video Teaching Modules
Weekly LIVE Group Q&A Calls + Community Connection Labs
Held Online via Zoom + Private Online Community Portal
A Space for Men & Women to Come Together

HD is an alchemical container for men and women to heal the wounds distrust and disconnection that can occur in sexuality, intimacy, and attraction, so we can stayed rooted in our unique power, purpose, and creative life force energy.

It’s a roadmap for grounding in our wholeness and divinity, so we can trust each other as Brothers and Sisters on the Path and forge deeper bonds of Kinship & Community.

This container is for the souls playing at a high level of truth, love, and integrity, in service to the healing, nourishment, and liberation of all.

It would be a pleasure to dance with you in this container.
All genders are welcome in in this container.

May we all remember who we truly are.

You’re in the right place if…

• You know your desire is a powerful creative energy, and want a map for following your desire in a way that you can trust you won't abandon yourself or compromise your integrity in the process.

• You’re here to bring something big into the world, and you’re committed to being a clear, ground, embodied channel for the wisdom, creativity, and sacred work that wants to flow through you.

• You’re ready to let go of self-protection mechanisms and wounds from the past that limit your ability to open your heart to more love, more truth, more pleasure, and more genuine goodness.

• You’re ready to finally release the places where shame, guilt, fear, self-doubt, or religious dogma still block you from being able to fully hear or trust your feelings, needs, desires, and intuition.

• You have your own unique relationship with spirituality and want to root into that connection with God/Source/Creator/Divinity as a baseline for how you relate with every area of your life.

• You know more is possible in your sexuality, and you want to cultivate the internal safety and embodiment necessary to be more open, receptive, and expressive in your erotic experiences.

• You're paving your own unique path and want to feel grounded in your body and inner navigation system so you can trust yourself to make decisions rooted in your highest truth and timeline.

• You’re a sensitive/empathic person and desire a powerful and intuitive skillset for discerning and embodying your boundaries so you can remain open and receptive to the world around you.

• Community is important to you and you want to be around people committed to their growth and self-awareness, and cultivating their own thought leadership/creative expression.

If you’re a Leader, you may want to…

• Gain skills for resolving unconscious power dynamics that can play out in communities or groups between men and women when charged topics around sexuality, leadership, and power.

• Bring more boldness into your work and thought leadership, and release fears around making a mistake, being attacked, or being too much when it comes to owning your truth & power.

• Learn skills for navigating intimacy, attraction, and power dynamics in client work that will help you let go of rigidity that feels inauthentic while also creating deeper trust, safety, & permission.

• Learn why integrating and embodying your authentic sexuality is essential for you as a leader bring more power, clarity, safety, and freedom into the spaces you hold.

“I joined Holy Desire to deepen my relationship with understanding my desires and authentically aligning with my truth. Little did I know that I would end up healing some deeply rooted emotional challenges with my family as a result of this program. For the first time I got to voice my shadows and how I felt about my family in a safe container. Once I finally released this and was witnessed, something massive shifted in me and I gained a level of acceptance that dissolved all the pain and anger I’ve felt my whole life. Arielle holds an impeccable space and is 💯 one of the most authentic and wise women in her field. She doesn’t perform and there are no semantics, it’s raw, real and we move through the shit to experience the bliss! Yes to anyone who wants to heal relations with Self and Other, take this course”. - Sari Starr

“I was recently enrolled in Holy Desire with Arielle Brown guiding the group. This program delivered Far More than I dreamt was possible as far as advancing me towards my authentic purpose in life. To be honest, I had lost all faith in Love and relationships. I couldn’t have proven myself any more wrong! HD taught me how to reconnect with myself, deep down inside of myself.

Arielle guided me to my troubled issues and allowed me to FINALLY deal with emotions that were handled poorly in my past, when I was doing what I needed to survive. I WANTED the healing… I wanted to stop making the same mistakes, time and time again. The healing continues to happen for me, long after the course has finished… I was also hired (under apprenticeship) in a totally different career! FOR Real! I never expected THAT to happen! Holy Desire opened my mind to a Whole New Vision of the Future.Holy Desire opened my life to my True Purpose, and THAT’s a really good way to feel. FIVE Stars… Now, it’s Your Turn! Enroll in a course with Arielle Brown Today!” - D. Gellings

What is HOLY DESIRE?

HOLY DESIRE is the sacred fire of passion and thirst for creation that lives within all of us.

It is our aliveness, our creativity, our erotic life force, our essential nature, our longing to create union (within and without), and birth beautiful and miraculous things into the world.

HOLY DESIRE, in its purest form, is our connection to God/Source/The Sacred. The pulse of energy that connects us all and reminds us of who we are and why we’re here.

HOLY DESIRE is a pulse of energy (and intimacy) we can tend that connects us to our truth, power, and creativity… and just like moths drawn to a candle, we run the risk of being consumed by the intensity of its flame.

It invites us to hold the paradox of longing for intimacy, union, surrender, eroticism, co-creation, pleasure, liberation, meaningful fulfillment…while also holding the desire for safety, structure, grounding, consistency, integrity, certainty, and trust.

Sometimes we become victims of the flame, indeed feeling overpowered by the intensity of the heat and losing connection to our grounded center and discernment...playing out old wounds, patterns, and distortions in the pursuit of surface level pleasure or fantasy.

And some choose to abstain from the flame altogether, because it can seem easier to just avoid desire altogether than risk being burned by it (and the chaos, shame, and/or self-doubt that often ensues).

But, what if there’s another way? What if rather than feeling victimized or over-powered by it, or avoiding the flame all together, what if we learned how to DANCE with it?

What if we learned how to be in right relationship with the holy fire of desire, both within and without, so we could trust ourselves to hold and tend that flame?

HOLY DESIRE is a 12-week alchemical container for men and women coming together to release distortions of distrust and disconnection that can arise through intimacy, sexuality, and attraction…

…so we can experience the love, safety, and belonging we truly desire in relationship and community, while staying rooted in the truth, power, and sacred purpose that guides our destiny.

**HOLY DESIRE is Intermediate Level Program, with personal growth or self-inquiry required.**
In order to create a safe, powerful, and courageous space to explore authenticity, vulnerability, and desire, it is essential that as a participant, you are committed to becoming curious of your own personal triggers, so that you can enter into highly charged emotional situations from a place of curiosity and connection (as opposed to defaulting into reactionary defense patterns). The space is held with an immense amount of love and compassion, AND, it takes a village to to create a space of mutual empowerment. If you have questions, please email arielle@ariellebrown.com.

Join us for the HD Cohort beginning February 2024.

Investment Options:

After registering, you’ll receive an email asking you to fill out a Participant Intake Form. Please complete the Intake Form within 72 hours to confirm your enrollment.

Please read the Terms & Conditions that apply upon purchase.

BIPOC Partial Scholarships are available. If you are BIPOC and want to apply for a partial scholarship, send me (Arielle) a message on Facebook or Instagram messenger and tell me your situation.
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“I joined Holy Desire because I wanted to grow. I wanted to be a more conscious leader and lover. I had a desire to learn new ideas and step into a new version of myself. One rooted in deeper awareness. To help my community and learn how to lean deeper into connection with others and myself. Holy desire helped me in ways I was not only in need, but ways I couldn’t have expected. It was as though each module was but a remembrance… clicking into place.  Ah ha moments. Deepening my awareness to patterns I’ve played out my entire life. 

At times it felt as though Arielle was in my soul creating this just for me. For my struggles, my confusion. The ways I knew I needed but wasn’t sure “how”. How do I move closer to my heart's desire. A map. Holy Desire feels like a map into the internal processing of the masculine and feminine energy and relationship dynamic. Within ourselves and each other. Holy desire truly brought me into deeper alignment with my purest hearts desires. Clarity, and tangible support to create a life of beauty through integrity. Through my desire. To surrender rather than force. To hold myself in validation and safety and allow trust in myself and others through practice. My purest desires are at my feet, unfolding rapidly, magnificently, and I could not be more grateful for Arielle’s wisdom and care throughout this journey. My heart sings with praise and appreciation. May all beings have the opportunity to find freedom in their holy desires”. - SaMa

“Personally I came into Arielle's mastermind with an intention around a relationship that felt like it would most likely take years to actualize. And yet, week by week I felt the restructuring of my worth and capacity to actually ask for what I want and need to grow and take root. A relationship that I thought I had to let go of completely transformed into the most healthy, unconditionally loving and consistent relationship that I have ever had. This love is supporting the growth of my heart and healing old rote patterns around sexuality as I stay present for the purity of connection that is available. This is pure gold. This is Alchemy”. - Shannon

HOLY DESIRE Structure:

What’s Included:

Weekly Teaching Modules to Focus Our Individual Work & Group Exploration
These are video teachings that will be uploaded to our private community group.

Weekly Group Coaching Q&A Calls/Community Connection Labs + Recordings
Receive Coaching from Arielle & Witness Other People’s Process on What’s Arising in Your Exploration

Weekly Integration Exercises + Writing Prompts to Deepen the Teachings
These group and individual assignments are designed to walk you through an alchemical process

A Vibrant Private Online Community Group Housed on Mighty Networks (MN)
Cultivate a rich community dialogue, share your progress, ask deeper questions.

Special Guest Class on the Intersection of Race & Sexuality with Aaron Johnson
Teachings on race are integral to the topic of embodied sexuality and healthy communal ecosystems.

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LIVE Call Schedule:

LIVE Group Q&A/Community Integration Calls (Thursdays @ 12pm-1:30pm PST)
Feb 15 • Feb 22 • March 7 • March 14 • March 21 • April 4 • April 11 • April 25 • May 2

Separate Women’s Call & Men’s Call
Thursday (Feb 29) - Women’s Call @ 12pm-1pm PST / Men’s Call @ 1:15pm-2:15pm PST
Thursday (April 18) - Women’s Call @ 12pm-1pm PST / Men’s Call @ 1:15pm-2:15pm PST

Special Guest Class - Race & Sexuality
Thursday (March 28) @ 12pm-2pm PST
Taught by guest teacher Aaron Johnson, founder of Holistic Resistance.

*LIVE Calls are held online via Zoom and recorded.
Recordings will be made available in case you can’t attend LIVE.

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Curriculum Context

HOLY DESIRE is about learning how to dance with the flame of what we truly desire in life—and how to move towards it in a way that honors the truth, power, and sovereignty, while also acknowledging our connection to the All, and being in service to the hearth and heart of community.

We’ll establish the archetypes of Divine Lover & Sacred Kin as a reference point for relating with men and women in our life as brothers and sisters on the path of remembering. We’ll talk about the Sex-Heart-Crown connection as an approach to sexuality that is deeply grounded in the heart-centered integrity. From here, erotic and romantic relationships can be in held in the context of prioritizing healthy relational ecosystems that support vital, sustainable, growth-centered communities and culture.

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Tentative Curriculum

Please note: This February 2024 round will include additional modules TBD as the group program begins.
I always based teaching curriculum off what is most needed/alive in the current cohort.

M1: Holy Desire as a Compass for our Destiny
Learn on a felt-sense level how to identify what an authentic desire is, versus an avoidant desire that pulls us away from our greater purpose. We’ll work with the 3Ds of Material Reality (Desire, Distortion, & Devotion) as a reference point to identify our core intention for the course (and beyond) that will allow for opening to more of what we truly want in life, intimacy, purpose, and pleasure.

M2: Power, Embodiment, & Discerning Truth in the Body
We’ll identify what it means to source our power, and truth from within, rather than relying on external dogma or trying to control our environment in order to feel safe. We’ll do an inventory of where past wounds, traumas, or distorted dogma from societal conditioning impact our ability to discern truth within our own bodies and be in powerful relationship with the present moment.

M3: Cultivating Our Energetic Container (Masculine & Feminine Polarity Integration)
We’ll identify what it means to cultivate energetic sovereignty through how we relate with our own Masculine & Feminine energy, so we’re less victimized by the world around, and shift into a place of creatorhood that allows us to attract relationships and experiences that are more aligned towards wholeness, integrity, and overflow.

M4: Intimacy (& Power) Dynamics Between Men & Women
We’ll explore common collective Distorted Archetypal Dynamics (aka D.A.D.s) of relating that to exist between men and women through cultural conditioning that negatively impact our ability to be in open-hearted cohesive connection together. During this module week, we’ll have two separate group calls—one for women and one for men, to have a separate space to speak about the things we do not say, and the things that get in the way, with the intention to weave these truths back into the collective group in ways that foster connection.

M5: Pleasure, Sexuality, & Pacing Our Opening
Let’s go into the heart of expanding our baseline for pleasure, intimacy, vulnerability, and open-hearted connection in our sexual and erotic experiences. We’ll explore the places for men and women where societal conditioning, wounding, or bad experiences in past relationships block or challenge our ability to open to pleasure. We’ll explore a new definition of “orgasm”, and bring more permission for what’s “allowed” in our sexual experiences. And, for those who already feel adept in their sexuality, we’ll explore ways of taking your bliss, intimacy, and spiritual connection in sexuality to the next level.

M6: Pententration, Attunement, & Receptivity
Beyond penetration being something we just associate with sex, we’ll zoom into the energetic realm of how we penetrate people and the world with our ideas, desires, perspectives, actions, and yes our physical anatomy. We’ll explore attuned vs. disconnected penetration. And engaged receiving vs. dissociated or disconnected receiving. And most importantly, the boundary of space, energy, and physical

M7: Navigating Controversy & Discomfort in Connection
This module is about expanding our capacity to remain present in our hearts and bodies when things get crunchy. When we want to run, when our old wounds are triggered. The places where we perform, react, or shut down because old narratives tell us it’s not safe to be fully ME here. In this module we’ll go into deeper exploration of what it means to be allies for each other’s awakening and remembering. Both as leaders in our work, and as humans in our personal lives and intimate relationships.

Special Guest Class: Race & Sexuality - “The Tender Touch”
Taught by Aaron Johnson, Founder of Holistic Resistance & Grief to Action

“Tender touch is something black people were never supposed to experience post slavery, from each other or from white hands. Tender Touch has been taken from black bodied people, with the invention of The Black Brute archetype to justify lynching. In this workshop with interactive Q&A, we’ll explore how to bring commitment, awareness, and tools to be able to identify the Chronically UnderTouched, how this shaped our culture, and how we can be interruptive forces”.

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At the beginning of the week, a Teaching Module will be uploaded via video to the Mighty Networks online group to focus our personal and group inquiry. Each Teaching Module will be accompanied by a practice or written assignment to help guide and inform your own unique journey with the work.

The first teaching module will be uploaded on Monday (February 12th).

*Please note, the exact teachings are subject to change as they are always in service to what’s most alive in the individual participants and combined group field that enroll in HOLY DESIRE.

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The Mighty Networks (MN) Group
Mighty Networks is an awesome online social platform similar to Facebook group, but better.
This is where the group field and hive mind comes to life. The more you lean into share and interact with the other HOLY DESIRE members in our online platform, the more you’ll see next week’s Teaching Module reflected in what you’re actively working with. My facilitation teaching style is always a dance between Masculine Structure and Feminine attunement to what’s alive in the group field.

Group Q&A Coaching Calls
Our LIVE Group Coaching + Q&A Sessions are a way to receiving hot seat coaching from me on what’s most present for you in your own relationship with the work. I also encourage selfish listening on these calls, as what one person brings forward is often always applicable to you on some level.

Two of our Group Q&A Sessions will be separated into women-only and men-only so we can deepen into gender-specific issues and bring the richness of those gender-focused conversations back into the richness of the co-ed group field. See the time/date for these calls in the program schedule above.

Community Connection Labs
These LIVE calls will be focused on cultivating deeper connection with other HD participants. We’ll play different authentic connection games and utilized the breakout group function on Zoom so you can share your process and integrate what you’ve been leaning/experience with the HD community.

Investment Options:

After registering, you’ll receive an email asking you to fill out the HD Participant Intake Form. Please complete the Intake Form within 72 hours to confirm your enrollment.

Please read the Terms & Conditions that apply upon purchase.

BIPOC Partial Scholarships are available. If you are BIPOC and want to apply for a partial scholarship, send me (Arielle) a message on Facebook or Instagram messenger and tell me your situation.
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“What I took away from my group work with Arielle is something I haven’t gotten in any other setting, and yet I’ve been able to re-create several times in the two short weeks since. Learning what it feels like in my body to state my desires and boundaries, to hear the same from my partner, and to respond to requests in (and out of) integrity with my body becomes not so much a verbal skill to master, but more like muscle memory. For the first time, I’m able to own my own desires, let go of outcomes, and simply be in the present moment. I can do it again and again without having to think about it, like riding a bike. Arielle helped me find that source of grounded presence in myself, and more importantly, what it feels like. Now I carry that energy with me into every interaction, every connection, every conversation I have”. - Matthew

"Before working with Arielle, I was rigid and disembodied. All head, very little body awareness.  I’ve worked with her in two different containers now (one group and one private) and I feel confident saying that Arielle has been an invaluable part of my embodiment journey. Not only has her work greatly impacted how safe I feel in my own body & in relationship with my partner, it has affected literally every area of my life: how embodied and confident I feel as a leader, the breadth of what I’m able to offer my clients, how vulnerable I’m willing to be with friends and community, how much abundance I’m able to receive. Everything. After two prior investments with coaches who felt cold, distant, and very transactional…working with Arielle honestly helped me restore my trust and confidence in allowing space to be held for me. The devotion she has for her work and the care with which she relates in her containers is felt and unquestionable”. - Nicole

The WHY for this Container
A Note from Arielle, HD Founder ~

Through my decade of doing intentional personal and professional work in the realms of intimacy, sexuality, power, leadership, and community building, it has been my experience that the way we’ve been taught to relate with our sexuality (and how we sexualize others) is not conducive to healthy models of relating, leadership, & community. 

Simply put, “Hookup culture is the antithesis of community”.

We can’t have healthy communities that have stable relational ecosystems if we don’t resolve the disconnection that has occurred between our sexuality and our hearts.

And, we can’t have healthy interplays of power in intimacy, community, or culture if men and women don’t resolve the underlying wounding and distrust that has occurred (and sustained) regarding sexuality and power (and money). These are the elephants in the room that will continue to sabotage forward momentum in our personal relationships and the greater social paradigm of we don’t address them with care, devotion, and conscious intentionality.

Whether we want to acknowledge it or not, even in highly spiritual individuals who are devoted to their awakening and healing path––wounding around sexuality and attraction, romance, and sexuality with the opposite sex is still a place of deep struggle and distortion. 

There is a way that (regardless of gender) we’ve been trained to objectify the opposite sex. To feel desire or attraction for a person in a way that in a way removes their humanness from the equation–meaning that in acknowledging our sexual desire or attraction or a person, we can forget that they are a human on the path with their own struggles, longings, and uncertainties.

When we feel sexual desire or attraction for a person, it can cause our unresolved wounds from past experiences in sex and intimacy to arise, that don’t actually have to do with this present time person.

Old wounds and traumas stored in the body from past experiences can cause us to perceive reality through a lens where “I’m not safe” or “I need to protect myself”— which limits our capacity to show up fully available, empowered, and receptive to the the truth of the present moment. 

This is about learning how to access power, safety and freedom from within ourselves—rather than needing to control or manipulate our environment to feel, so we can meet ourselves and others from a place of power, authenticity, and love.

This is about re-establishing the heart-sex connection by learning to hold the paradox that we can BOTH find someone sexually attractive/desirable, AND holding them in compassionate love as a brother or sister on the path of community and remembering.

This is about remembering that our primary relationship is with God, Source, Universal Energy—and that only when we’re rooted in that primary devotional connection can we truly give and receive in relationship with another from a full and clear cup.

HOLY DESIRE is a 7 week container for men and women committed to the deeper embodiment and integration work required to truly dance with the flame of power, sexuality, and desire with the opposite sex in a way that honors our humanity and priorities the health of community.

Join us for the HD Cohort beginning February 2024.

Investment Options:

After registering, you’ll receive an email asking you to fill out the HD Participant Intake Form. Please complete the Intake Form within 72 hours to confirm your enrollment.

Please read the Terms & Conditions that apply upon purchase.

BIPOC Partial Scholarships are available. If you are BIPOC and want to apply for a partial scholarship, send me (Arielle) a message on Facebook or Instagram messenger and tell me your situation.
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"Arielle is a beautiful and rare combination of masculine and feminine energy, able to hold a container; protective and nurturing like a loving mother, structured and challenging like a loving father. She shares herself with vulnerability but never seems to require her students to ‘take care’ of her. She is clearly resourced in herself. She was with us every step of the way, never out ahead of us with a rigidly held pre-determined plan. She was also respectful of our time and her own, and was well prepared, guiding just out of her depth and breadth of experience and knowledge. Her warm sense of humor, easy laughter, and heart-centered listening, punctuated by apt responses delivered with surgical precision, made me feel safe to explore my own vulnerability in the container of the group. While always challenging, her assignments felt manageable and in tune with us as a group. I highly recommend Arielle as a teacher”. -Margarett

FAQ

Reflections from Past Groups

“When I signed up to work with Arielle, I was immediately looking forward to the growth that I knew would happen within her sacred container. Then, I was completely terrified. The thing is, facing my demons around intimacy, relationships, my sacred feminine, and my own fear of losing control — all of it was SO scary. Until our first call. Arielle made me feel safe and always let me know that my feelings and fears and desires were valid. She helped me see how fulfilling it can be to let go. To lean into pleasure. To soak up kindness and deeply feel. Arielle helped me begin the process of thawing out my scarred heart, and made me feel SO safe while the healing took place.

Before working with Arielle, I had no concept of how I was going to “be better” at receiving. I thought I’d have to do a lot of hard homework and have awkward conversations and I wasn’t quite sure I had what it took to experience any real improvement in my relationship to men and myself. She showed me I was already a sacred being, totally capable of receiving, and she held space for me to let down down my countless walls and relax into receiving love. She taught me what I want is NOT wrong. Her coaching and guidance 100% shifted how I show up for my romantic relationship, my client and family relationships, and most importantly, my relationship with myself.

She helped me see what is endlessly possible, when before I felt like I was stumbling through the dark. My relationship with my partner continues to deepen every day, we fall more in love with each passing hour, and I’m not sure this would’ve happened if it hadn’t been for Arielle. She, gave me permission to believe in love again. To believe in my sacred feminine. To unconditionally trust myself. And that is a gift I will carry with me for the rest of my life. And I’m so grateful. If you’re thinking about working with Arielle, follow your instincts. She is magical, lyrical, and she brings an energy to her work that is unlike anything I’ve seen before. She’s like poetry in real life. I fire you can touch and feel no pain. She’s a warm hug when you feel isolated and scared. She’s the compassionate Queen Mother we’ve all needed for centuries. Thank you so much for helping me grow, Arielle. I am better because I know you”.

“Most of us are programmed to fear, compete and immediately place the other woman somewhere on our conditioned hierarchical ladder. We are taught to consistently make ourselves unavailable for authentic and empowering connection to our sisters. For me, Arielle’s group container was a healing salve to this societal wound that was aching to be remedied as I stepped more deeply into embodiment of my feminine power. Arielle weaves an immaculate web for all of us to rest gently on. She is a fine tuned musician (both literally and metaphorically). She knows when to pluck the strings she has delicately woven, creating compassionate friction — eradicating your stories whilst pushing you into seeing all of who you are. And, she knows when to draw you closer and hold you in her gentle cocoon of multi-dimensional sight and warm acceptance. - Pilar

The work that Arielle bathes the world in is important. It satiates the desire we all have to live a full and joyous life where we feel comfortable in our bodies, our worth, our relationships, and our life’s purpose. Arielle’s presence will infuse your being with the magic and truth of what it means to be human”. - Jordan Deas

“Arielle helps people see that through making the unconscious conscious, one's light will blossom into a new perception of the world.Working with her is a powerful opportunity to transcend self-imposed limitations, outdated narratives, and ingrained fears and justifications. She is a true coach in every sense of the word. I feel shockingly seen in her presence, and I adore her humanity”. - Kristin